tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3667609426645247378.post407616110214868659..comments2023-07-22T09:21:36.182-04:00Comments on Peeling The Onion: Never Say Or Think “I Should Have…”Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02547029401388076822noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3667609426645247378.post-17880063850695519332014-11-05T02:08:04.018-05:002014-11-05T02:08:04.018-05:00Yes Indeed..Brooding over past mistakes will noway...Yes Indeed..Brooding over past mistakes will noway make our present any happier..Rajhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07375483508130878889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3667609426645247378.post-28184340070678792442011-09-27T11:42:46.483-04:002011-09-27T11:42:46.483-04:00Yes, this is a real serious problem. I certainly h...Yes, this is a real serious problem. I certainly have had unrelenting standards that manifest as "I should've tried harder...if I really did give it my 100%, instead of 'only' 95% I wouldn't be suffering with such and such.<br /><br />The bad thinking is that because I don't have the life I want I must've made mistakes...and if only I tried harder they wouldn't have occurred.<br /><br />Yep, that's a tough one.<br /><br />I understand you're not talking about not having moral standards or personal integrity. I SHOULD behave well with others and I SHOULD NOT steal, etc. And if I do have breakdowns I should be accountable for them, etc., so I can get back to being in the present.Randy Zeitmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17414896027224112387noreply@blogger.com